How do You Handle Defensiveness?- The 4 Horsemen Series - Part 2

Samuel, Alumnus
Submitted by Samuel 10 years 3 months

Many unfaithful spouses, myself included, struggle with defensiveness after the discovery of their affairs and infidelity. Today, continuing the discussion on the four horsemen, I discuss defensiveness today in part 2 of my 4 part video series.

GOTTMAN, J. M., & SILVER, N. (1999). The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. New York, Three Rivers Press.

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
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