Affair Recovery

Samuel discusses a sensitive pitfall for couples seeking recovery.

Samuel continues the discussion on the unfaithful spouse's journey of dealing with self rejection.

Samuel discusses a controversial topic: the midlife crisis and infidelity.

Samuel answers a common question in healing from infidelity.

Samuel discusses ways to break free form old destructive patters in marriage.

Samuel shares a significant pitfall couples make in attempting to heal from infidelity.

Samuel shares poignant information regarding why spouses both cheat and relapse.

Samuel addresses the desire of betrayed spouses to sometimes see their spouse suffer for their choices.

Samuel shares one of the pivotal reasons spouses cheat.

Today Samuel shares helpful insight into do's and don'ts for attempting to woo your spouse back.

Samuel shares personal insight on how to find new strength in recovery.

Samuel discusses a major pitfall in recovery: letting pain be our guide.

Samuel lays out a recovery protocol for weariness in recovery from the effects from infidelity.

Last May was our three-year anniversary post D-day and as I anticipated, it hardly caused a ripple in my emotions. I knew the day was nearing but we were in a good place and we breezed through it without drama, triggers, or setbacks to our recovery. I believed we were finally through the worst that my husband's betrayal could throw at us. We had made it through the fire and while scarred were at last in a better, stronger, safer place.

Then from out of nowhere and without warning, ambivalence hit me like a punch to the gut. It came as a shock this far into recovery. Ambivalence is normal and part of the...