Q&A How Do I Get Him to See My Perspective? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: My husband is in complete denial that he is even having an emotional affair with this other woman. He says they just play Pokemon Go together, which is apparently driving around together late at night for hours talking & catching Pokemon. They park at a park & carpool to a restaurant for drinks & to talk or go to a bar to play pool every Thursday. This has been going on for over a year. She buys him gifts. He sends her flowers. He confides in her about our marriage. She was privy to our marriage problems before even I was. We were fine before her. All the signs of an emotional affair are there & I felt the detachment. I've expressed my hurt & pain how it is damaging to our marriage. He doesn't see it. It's my fault. My husband stone walls when trying to discuss the situation. Never of us want to divorced but I'm prepared to file soon. He refuses to stop seeing her saying I'm controlling & he has the right to have a friend. She manipulates him saying they aren't doing anything wrong & if I loved him I would let him do whatever he wanted. She is also married & he husband encourages their relationship. He also has female friendships. Sorry, I know this is so long. I guess my question I don't know what to do because he thinks he's doing nothing wrong.Sections: Leslie and John's callsRL_Category: For The Hurt SpouseQ&A Recovery LibraryRecovery FundamentalsRL_Media Type: Video
