It has been 11 months since I discovered my husband's infidelity through phone messages and lots of sexting. He claims it was all emotional, that is all there is to it, and refuses to answer any question or talk about it at all. He says he has told me he is sorry and basically thinks we should move on by now and has no interest in doing recovery work but says he wants to stay married to me. Through Affair Recovery materials, I understand there needs to be disclosure for my recovery. What am I to do when I don't have that? We are still married and I’ll finish Harboring Hope in two weeks. I do not feel any closer to finding closure or knowing if and how to continue being married to a total stranger.