My husband has been involved with another woman going on 2 years now. At one point she lived with our family as a roommate and I saw the relationship for what it truly was. I was so desperate to keep him away from her I was talked into group sex with them. She is no longer with us, but they are still in contact. He won't call the relationship an affair and claims he wanted a second wife and that's how he refers to her. We started the Bootcamp but he isn't willing to do the 90 day separation from her although he claims he wants to work things out with me and make our marriage better. I don't know how to move forward without dealing with the train wreck. Where do I go from here?