Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question How do you ever get over the betrayal and rejection aspect of an affair?? I had to file for divorce because my husband has never been sorry for having the affair or other relationships that he had in our 40 year marriage. He moved in with his AP and then blamed everything on me. He made our adult children not want to talk to him by saying very hurtful things to them. He has pretty much walked away from me and the entire family. He was …