I'm a recovery sex addict with over 70 days sobriety. Prior length was 90 days. I’ve had two lapses with pornography. I'm currently not living with wife but we are very close to reconciliation. Our communication is back to how it was at the beginning, before lust took over my life. Our fear is that marital intimacy will trigger the lust that nearly killed me in the first place, and almost destroyed the marriage. Will I ever be able to enjoy my wife like a normal man? I’m in 12-step work and completing step 9 now.