Q&A (HH) What Feelings Do the Unfaithful Experience?

Question

Dear Leslie and John, I'd like to ask you to share your experience with unfaithful spouse's reactions to betrayed spouse’s healing process? What kind of feelings the unfaithful souse is going through? Is it possible that he feels fair, uncertainty, hesitations or something like that? The affair was six years ago, but just now I've decided to start my own recovery. So, my husband asked me to not talk about my ''healing results'', my experience and thought...