Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question Hi John and Leslie, I've read and learned from AR that "pain that is not transformed will be transmitted". What are some ways to transform the pain other than taking Harboring Hope, EMSO and praying? (Already done/doing those) Also I have learned that "the only reason to stay is God is telling you and the only reason to go is God is telling you"...How can I be sure I am hearing from God? I pray for clarity and His direction but I am s…