Q&A How do I Come to Terms with what they Did?

Question

It has been almost 8 months since my husband's confession. We are in counseling, did the boot camp, I am doing Harboring Hope, and I am stuck. I am stuck in the area of intimacy. I get this thought in my head that if it was a one night stand or a stranger I didn't know or a series of hookers etc. that I could somehow move forward from that part easier??? Likely an inaccurate thought anyway; or a twisted 'grass is greener' outlook??? But it wasn't any of tho...