Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question Is it harmful to push through sexual moments with my husband even while I am experiencing constant images of him with his AP? I am 4 months past discovery. In the first few months we were quite active sexually and while I found the images painful, I was more able to push them aside, and felt the intimacy between us to be healing. Now, however, as reality has set in about what he did, anything we do physically creates a picture of him w…