Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question Is it possible to go through a very long period without romantic kissing and still make it through reconciliation? I feel like the progress my husband and I make is so slow. In our past he felt rejected sexually by me. Sex became almost non-existent. We were so close to separation before the affair and then there was his affair. This was followed by separation for several months while the affair continued. It was a long term affair for w…