Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question Attended EMS March 2014. Learned term ACOA. Husband grew up in very abusive home. I have learned in therapy, I come from ACOA family too but have abandonment issues. Husband did Ems home work for about 6 weeks then stopped as he said too painful to listen to others pain. He moved out in August as he learned our 18 yr old daughter knew of his infidelity. ( supposed 3 yr emotional , which he says he has broken off ). We have been going to…