Wow, that was interesting, for I am and have been at the stage whereby, although I got the raw end of the deal, but trying to work thru and get thru from what I still haven't a clue as to the why, there is anger when the subject is asked, directly or indirectly, for I still am unknown to possibly know what part I may have had or even have now in his affair. And I think we are in his control phase, but GOD. And maybe I may be somewhere along the line, for there seems to be anger begetting anger when he sounds so defensive in my comments or conversation. Wow.....