Surviving Infidelity Series: How Developmental Trauma Can Frustrate the Betrayed Spouse I can't count how many times I've said to myself "If I knew then, what I know now... healing would have been so much easier." If there is a missing link to the process of healing from infidelity or addiction, I'm certain that one of the top candidates is developmental trauma. But how do you discover what is and was developmental trauma versus what was just being a child and going through stuff? We're all in luck today, as you'll meet a therapist, a best friend of Samuel and expert healing guide, Michael Webb. Michael and Sam will take one particularly common scenario and break it down for both parties on both sides of the infidelity, to understand not only what's happening, but how to diffuse it. Today can be a great start to the understanding of your own developmental trauma on the road to healing.