Re-Evaluating Your Belief Systems after the Crisis of Infidelity

Samuel shares encouragement and perspective for those who are trying to heal.

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I have discovered I just don’t like what this has done to me. I’ve become so bitter. So resentful. I don’t like who I am now. I’m tired. I’m sick of the fight to recover. And for what? I’ve learned I didn’t know who I am married to. This entire thing just beats the life out of me.

Same. It’s like you are

Same. It’s like you are reading my mind.


I’ve struggle with this too. I really liked who I was before and wish I could find my way back to that happiness in myself. I am though. Two years out and working through it for as long as it takes. While I feel this way now, I know I won’t forever.... neither will you. Unless you want to. I totally understand how you’re feeling. I’ve surrendered to the feeling you describe of having the life beaten out of you. It’s the worst. I try to think of it as necessary for me to be rebuilt into something better... that I just can’t see or understand yet. I’ll trust God there.