Re-Evaluating Your Belief Systems after the Crisis of Infidelity

Samuel shares encouragement and perspective for those who are trying to heal.

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Pain

I have discovered I just don’t like what this has done to me. I’ve become so bitter. So resentful. I don’t like who I am now. I’m tired. I’m sick of the fight to recover. And for what? I’ve learned I didn’t know who I am married to. This entire thing just beats the life out of me.

Same. It’s like you are

Same. It’s like you are reading my mind.

Same

I’ve struggle with this too. I really liked who I was before and wish I could find my way back to that happiness in myself. I am though. Two years out and working through it for as long as it takes. While I feel this way now, I know I won’t forever.... neither will you. Unless you want to. I totally understand how you’re feeling. I’ve surrendered to the feeling you describe of having the life beaten out of you. It’s the worst. I try to think of it as necessary for me to be rebuilt into something better... that I just can’t see or understand yet. I’ll trust God there.