It's s common occurrence that unfaithful spouses can be ambivalent, not sure who to choose. Today, I want to help the unfaithful understand how to move through ambivalence and how to make a choice that will eventually promote healing for all parties involved.
When You Don't Know Who to Choose
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Don't assume the betrayed
Don't assume the betrayed spouse will jump for joy just because the unfaithful ultimately chose them, either. While the unfaithful are off doing the pick me game trying to figure out who the winner is, the betrayed are waking up to the reality of what they face, who their partner really is, and the future without full knowing trust. That's a tough one to swallow. So maybe the next video should be about the terrible choices a betrayed spouse is faced with when they never wanted to face those choices, and that is another pain and agony the unfaithful dump on betrayed spouses.
jumping for joy....
This is so true. As a spouse
This is so true. As a spouse who is waiting for her ambivalent spouse to make a decision I can feel my heart pulling away. I don't want it to but as time goes on and as I keep experiencing the pain of his ambivalence I can feel it growing weak.