Survivors Blog: Samuel
Samuel
Alumnus, Wayward. Providing hope, encouragement and infidelity-specific insight to anyone in recovery from betrayal.
Are You or Your Spouse Paralyzed by Anger?
Samuel discusses what one author calls 'aimless anger' in recovery.
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Constantly Reevaluating Your Recovery Will Wreck You in Three Ways
Samuel discusses the pitfall of constantly reevaluating your recovery.
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Infidelity Belief 2: Will It Always Be This Painful?
Samuel tackles the question of from many viewers of will it always be this painful?
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Infidelity Belief 1: I'm Never Going to Be the Same Again
Samuel tackles the mindset of never being the same again after discovering infidelity.
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Are You or Your Spouse 'Sleepwalking' in Recovery?
Samuel discusses a struggle all spouses seem to fall into during recovery work.
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Why Doesn't the Unfaithful See What They Are in Danger of Losing?
Samuel answers viewers comments on why the unfaithful isn't aware of the consequence of their choices.
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What to Expect in Recovery from Infidelity When There Is No Honesty
Samuel shares part two of why humility and honesty must be present in recovery.
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What to Expect in Recovery from Infidelity When There Is No Humility
Samuel shares part one of why humility and honesty must be present in recovery.
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Couples That Do These Things Take the Longest to Heal
Samuel shares examples of some of the worst things to do in the recovery process.
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Recovery from Addiction or Infidelity Can't Be Done Alone
Samuel shares why spouses absolutely need the right support to heal.
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If You're Doing This, You're Abandoning Your Betrayed Spouse
Samuel discusses a sensitive pitfall for couples seeking recovery.
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When Will My Betrayed Spouse Have Feelings for Me Again?
Samuel tackles the pivotal question unfaithful spouses struggle with.
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Understanding Infidelity and Self Hatred Part Two
Samuel continues the discussion on the unfaithful spouse's journey of dealing with self rejection.
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Help for the Unfaithful Spouse: Dealing with a Traumatized and Betrayed Spouse
Samuel shares practical insight to help unfaithful spouses care for their traumatized mate.
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Infidelity and the Midlife Crisis
Samuel discusses a controversial topic: the midlife crisis and infidelity.
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What Happens When the Unfaithful Spouse Tries to Rush Their Spouse to Heal?
Samuel discusses the struggle the betrayed spouse feels internally when rushed to heal or 'get over it.'
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Healing from Infidelity: What Is Recovery Work?
Samuel answers a common question in healing from infidelity.
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One of the Worst Things an Unfaithful Spouse Can Do in Recovery
Samuel shares one of the biggest mistakes an unfaithful spouse can make in recovery.
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Recovery from Infidelity: Unlearning Old Approaches
Samuel discusses ways to break free form old destructive patters in marriage.
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Tools to Stay Focused in Recovery from Infidelity
Samuel shares personal tools he would use in recovery.
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What Story Are You Telling Yourself About Your Spouse?
Samuel shares a significant pitfall couples make in attempting to heal from infidelity.
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A Double Betrayal: My Spouse Cheated with My Best Friend
Samuel shares a particular type of affair called the 'double betrayal' and how to recover from it.
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Understanding Infidelity and Self Hatred Part 1
Samuel shares poignant information regarding why spouses both cheat and relapse.
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'I Want My Unfaithful Spouse to Suffer': Addressing the Pain of the Betrayed Spouse
Samuel addresses the desire of betrayed spouses to sometimes see their spouse suffer for their choices.
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Is the Pain of the Unfaithful Spouse Valid?
Samuel shares insight into the observations and struggles of the unfaithful spouse.
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Why We Choose Infidelity: A Lack of Self Acceptance
Samuel shares one of the pivotal reasons spouses cheat.
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Don't Fall Prey to the "You-First" Mentality
Today Samuel discusses a major trap unfaithful spouses fall into after disclosure.
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