Survivors Blog: Samuel
Samuel
Alumnus, Wayward. Providing hope, encouragement and infidelity-specific insight to anyone in recovery from betrayal.
Infidelity Trauma: An Interview with a Specialist Part 2
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Samuel interviews MJ Denis, a trauma specialist, about how couples can heal from infidelity.
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Infidelity Trauma: An Interview with a Specialist Part 1
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Samuel interviews MJ Denis, a trauma specialist, about how couples can heal from infidelity.
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Samuel Addresses the Statement: 'I Don't Know If I Believe in Us Anymore.'
Samuel addresses the situation where a couple may not believe in their marriage again.
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Why Does My Unfaithful Spouse Say I'm Too Controlling?
Samuel answers a viewers question and also explains why an unfaithful spouse may label their betrayed spouse controlling.
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When Is an Ultimatum Necessary in Healing From Infidelity?
Samuel discusses when and how to use an ultimatum in recovery work.
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A Word of Encouragement for Those Struggling to Go on in Recovery
Samuel shares hope and tangible encouragement for those struggling to find hope.
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How the Unfaithful Can Win Back Trust and Safety When Dealing with Infidelity
Samuel shares a significant pointer for the unfaithful spouse trying to win back trust.
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Three Necessary Recoveries of Infidelity
Samuel shares insight into three recoveries that have to be addressed when healing from infidelity.
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What Is Rewriting History in Healing from Infidelity?
Samuel shares insight into the tactic of 'rewriting history' and how to recover from it.
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How Do You Know If You're Too Far Gone to Be Saved?
Samuel discusses the common question in recovery; are we too far gone to be healed?
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Healing from Infidelity: Stop Defending the 10%
Samuel discusses a trap many unfaithful spouses fall into in recovery.
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My Spouse Is Not My Report Card: Avoiding Self Hatred in Recovery
Samuel shares a controversial but powerful approach to finding true healing.
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How Do You Forgive the Affair Partner?
Samuel shares insight into how to forgive the affair partner after the discovery of infidelity.
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Are You Dealing with Therapist Induced Trauma after Infidelity?
Samuel discusses how we can be traumatized by well meaning therapists and authority figures.
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Dissecting a Common Mistake When Healing from Infidelity
Samuel shares insight into a common mistake couples make in recovering from infidelity or addiction.
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When You Feel Alone after Infidelity
Samuel shares the proper motivation for recovery work after infidelity for both spouses.
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Why Fixing Your Spouse Is Not the Answer to Healing from Infidelity
Samuel discusses a necessary paradigm shift if couples are going to heal from infidelity.
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Help for the Unfaithful Spouse: Starting Life over Again
Samuel shares his own experience in adjusting to life after disclosure and embracing new patterns in life.
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Anger, the Betrayed Spouse, and Boundaries
Samuel speaks to the betrayed spouse on what anger is costing them in their recovery.
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What It's Costing the Unfaithful to Not Discuss the Infidelity
Samuel shares his own experience in adjusting to life after disclosure and embracing new patterns in life.
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What Defensiveness Does to the Betrayed Spouse
Samuel discusses how defensiveness diminishes safety from the recovery process.
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How to Confront Yourself as an Unfaithful Spouse
Samuel shares a key approach to helping the unfaithful spouse get healthy after infidelity.
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Heal Yourself or Heal the Marriage After Infidelity?
Samuel discusses a major paradigm shift in recovering from infidelity or addiction.
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One of the Biggest Causes of Infidelity and Failure in Restoration: Disconnection
Samuel discusses one of the number one reasons couples don't make it in recovery or marriage.
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Why Does the Unfaithful Spouse Withdraw during Communication about Infidelity?
Samuel answers a viewers question on why the unfaithful will often times withdraw in recovery work.
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Rediscovering Your Partner's Heart after Infidelity Part Two
Samuel shares suggestions for the betrayed spouse in rediscovering the unfaithful's heart.
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Rediscovering Your Partner's Heart after Infidelity Part One
Samuel shares pointers on how to help the unfaithful rediscover the betrayed's heart.
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Infidelity and Transition
Samuel shares pivotal insight on how to navigate the transition of recovery work.
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