Survivors Blog: Samuel
Samuel
Alumnus, Wayward. Providing hope, encouragement and infidelity-specific insight to anyone in recovery from betrayal.
Will it Ever Get Any Better?
Samuel shares in this video about how to replace the emotions caught up in infidelity and recovery from affairs.
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Are You Attached to an Outcome?
Today, Samuel gets pointed in his video discussion about whether or not were attached to an outcome in our recovery from infidelity, and when it's good to be attached to an outcome.
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Sometimes You Change Before the Situation Changes
In today's video, Samuel shares his own stories of him changing personally before the overall situation changed between he and Samantha while they were recovering from his infidelity.
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The Discipline of Pain
Samuel shares in today's video how pain changes us, especially the pain from infidelity.
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Infidelity Hits the Reset Button of Life
Samuel shares insight on how both he and Samantha's life were changed by infidelity.
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Who is in Charge of Recovery?
How do you know what's right or wrong in recovery after an affair? Samuel shares in this video, how to find a compass in recovery to make sure both spouses are doing what is right.
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Overcoming the Shame and Moving On
In this video, Samuel shares thoughts on how to face your situation however dark it is, to find new life and healing after an affair.
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You Can Only Run So Long...
Samuel discusses more of his own personal story and trying to run from the dysfunction and how it affected Samantha as they worked to recover from his affair and infidelity in their marriage.
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Is it Time to Stop Saving the Marriage and Start Saving Yourself?
Today Samuel discusses a critical step in recovery after an affair...saving yourself.
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When Will They Stop the Affair?
Samuel shares an important phrase in recovery during this video that discusses when someone typically will end an affair.
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This is All About Your Bottoming Out
Today Samuel shares in his video, four key components to recovery which are essential to long term healing after an affair.
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Is Your Spouse Addicted to Being Stuck? Part 2
Samuel continues sharing with his newest vlog on understanding the mindset of an unfaithful spouse who is stuck between their affair partner and their spouse.
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Is Your Spouse Addicted to Being Stuck? Part 1
Samuel shares a new vlog on understanding the mindset of an unfaithful spouse who is stuck between their affair partner and their spouse.
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It's True: Some of the Best Marriages are Restored Marriages
Today, Samuel shares in his video insights as to why repaired marriages can be so life giving.
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Is Recovery Worth It?
Today Samuel poses the question in his video, "Is it worth it to pursue recovery after an affair even if it looks like it's over?"
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Are You Multi-Tasking in Recovery?
Samuel discusses the topic of rushing through recovery after an affair and how we may find ourselves missing some important steps.
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A Major Common Error in Recovery
Samuel discusses a critical mistake many couples make adding to the frustration of recovery and restoration following infidelity.
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Recovery is About Developing Life Tools
Samuel shares a jarring story of financial ruin while going through recovery from infidelity and the tools he and Samantha developed.
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What if You're Uncertain About the Marriage?
Samuel discusses in this video why it's a good idea to do recovery work, even if you're unsure about whether you or your spouse wants to save the marriage after affairs and infidelity.
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Don't Re-evaluate Your Life Based Upon How Hard Today Is
Samuel offers hope in this video from his own story on how to make it through a difficult day in recovery from an affair and infidelity.
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Why the Betrayed Spouse Wants Details
Samuel discusses a difficult and common topic in recovery from infidelity during this video: Why the betrayed ask questions and want details.
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Blockages to Recovery Work and Trauma
In today's video, Samuel discusses resistance to recovery work after an affair and how to address the raw trauma of infidelity.
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How to Diffuse Bitterness: Part 2
Samuel continues part 2 of his video series today on bitterness and discusses techniques on diffusing and overcoming it.
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How to Diffuse Bitterness: Part 1
Samuel continues his video series today on bitterness and discusses techniques on diffusing and overcoming it.
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Bitterness Part 2: What it Does
Samuel continues his discussion on bitterness in today's video sharing what it actually does to you.
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Bitterness Part 1: The Signs
Samuel begins a new video series on bitterness and it's effects on recovery from infidelity and affairs.
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A Recent Trigger
Samuel shares a recent story where he had to utilize a valuable recovery principle.
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How Does the Betrayed Regain Honor?
Samuel discusses how to restore honor in the marriage seeking restoration following infidelity and affairs in today's video.
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