For The Hurt Spouse There are many aspects in the recovery of the betrayed spouse that will look very different from the unfaithful spouse. These articles are written specifically for healing and to provide hope and encouragement for the hurt spouse. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 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Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Problem with Forgiveness Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse 1206 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A What Are the Old Behaviors That I Should Seek to Avoid? 5/25/2021 Q&A Does Experimental Same Sex Acting Out Require Special Layers or Nuances to the Recovery Process? 5/25/2021 Hope Rising Conference 2021 Announcement: Words of Wisdom from Keynote Speaker Shauna Shanks 5/19/2021 Q&A How Can We Ever Build Trust? 5/12/2021 Q&A Should I Ask My Wife to Take Another Polygraph? 5/12/2021 Q&A How on Earth Do I Enforce Boundaries during This Time without Pushing Her Back to the Affair Partner? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Decide What to Do? 4/29/2021 Q&A What Advice Do You Have For Telling My Spouse That I Know About Their Affair and Who the Affair Partner Is? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Get Him to See My Perspective? 4/29/2021 Q&A Is It Possible That I’ll Have a Change of Heart Some Time Down the Road? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Cast Down My Thoughts of Beating Up My Wife’s Affair Partner? 4/29/2021 Q&A Should I Be Alarmed with This Feeling Of Disgust and Will It Ever Go Away? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Know He's Really Choosing Me? 4/29/2021 Q&A Is This Typical or Is My Husband Emotionally Immature? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Should I Answer Him When He Says I Should Forgive Him like the Bible Says to Forgive? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Respect My Husband Again or Decide If I Really Want to Stay Knowing We May Never Be Fully Healed? 4/29/2021 Q&A Is It Better to Ignore Him When He Is Trying to Reach Out and Connect or Should I Respond in Kind to Try to Maintain the Peace? 4/29/2021 Q&A Why Should I Believe My Husband Is Really Committed to Me When He Would Go Out of His Way for the Affair Partner, but Not for Me? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Go Back to Normal Sexual Behavior with My Spouse When My Spouse Told Me the Affair Partner Was Better Than Me in Bed and Also Had a Bigger Male Anatomy? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Re-Engage with Family, Friends, And Normal Life? 4/29/2021 Q&A Does Alcohol Really Play That Much of a Part in Infidelity? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Deal with His Inability to Talk about Our Marriage? 4/29/2021 Q&A How Do I Navigate Such Extreme Triggers from Discovery? 4/22/2021 A Discussion on Anger, Boundaries and Regrets After Infidelity 4/21/2021 Q&A How Could My Wife Be Having an Affair When We Were Trying to Get Pregnant? 4/13/2021 Q&A It Seems My Husband Is More Worried About His Self-Image Than Actually Healing, What Do I Do? 4/13/2021 Q&A Is He ‘Cured’ and Am I Now Safe? 4/13/2021 Q&A How Do I Balance Guarding My Heart with Building Intimacy in EMS Online When My Mate Is Still Engaging His Affair Partner? 3/25/2021 Q&A Am I Being Manipulated Again or Does He Truly Feel This Way? 3/25/2021 A Discussion on Remorse, Trauma and Extreme Suffering 3/24/2021 Q&A Am I Wasting My Time Hoping He Can Truly Change? 3/22/2021 Q&A When Is It Appropriate to Tell Adult Children about Their Mother's Affair? 3/22/2021 Q&A How Do I Handle the Mixed Messages I'm Receiving from My Ex-fiancé? 3/22/2021 Q&A Am I Expecting Too Much Too Soon, How Long Does It Take to Start to See That Coming Back? 3/18/2021 Q&A Is There Anything I Can Do to Help Him Work through His Struggles - Which in Turn Will Help Our Marriage? 3/18/2021 Q&A How Does the Betrayed Spouse Productively Handle Contempt and Disgust? 3/11/2021 Q&A Why Does My Wife Not See the Effort and Work It Takes for Me, as the Betrayed, to Stay in the Marriage? 3/11/2021 Q&A What Am I Supposed to Do as the Hurt Spouse Trying to Heal from My Husband’s Hurtful Behavior While Now Navigating My Past? 3/11/2021 Q&A What Does the Betrayed Spouse Do When the Betrayer Just Won’t End the Affair and Shows Signs of Limerence? 3/09/2021 Q&A Am I Being Unrealistic for Wanting to Have a More Loving, Satisfying, Sex Life after Infidelity? 3/09/2021 Q&A Is It Alright for Me Not to Confront My Husband about Breaching the Contract? 3/09/2021 Q&A Why Do I Want to Indulge in Thoughts of the Other Women? 3/09/2021 Q&A What Is My Husband's Addiction? 3/04/2021 Q&A What Is She Ambivalent about If There Was No Emotional Attachment to the Affair Partner? 3/04/2021 Q&A What Might Be a Better Way to Deal with My Pain? 3/04/2021 Q&A What Steps Can I Take to Learn to Trust Again? 3/04/2021 Q&A Is His Inability to Recall Details of the Affair Normal? 3/04/2021 Q&A Is My Spouse's Attitude Preventing Limerence from Fading? 3/04/2021 Q&A How Do I Stop Feeling Shame over My Husband's Thoughts? 3/04/2021 Q&A Can I Ever Feel Love Again for Her If I'm Feeling Trapped in This Marriage? 3/04/2021 Pages« first‹ previous…2345678910…next ›last »
