Affair Recovery

Samuel shares insight into the choice we have in dealing with the pain of infidelity.

Samuel answers questions about how to handle the pain of ending dysfunction in recovery.

Today Samuel tackles a complex but important topic in infidelity: enablement.

Samuel share a pivotal point of healing for both himself and Samantha during one of the most difficult times in their recovery.

Samuel discusses the struggle of an unfaithful spouse who continues to go back and forth between their affair partner and their spouse.

Samuel answers one of the most common questions by betrayed spouses: "When is enough, enough?"

Samuel discusses the effect of going through the motions in recovery for both spouses.

Samuel answers a viewers question regarding the unfaithful spouse and the direction of recovery.

Samuel shares a few ways we sabotage our own healing.

Samuel answers a viewer's question about how to handle anniversaries in recovery both for the marriage and recovery.

Samuel shares insight on how the unfaithful spouse can help the betrayed spouse heal faster.

Samuel shares empowering responses for betrayed spouses who feel stuck in their situation.

A man’s self-image is important. The world teaches us that men are supposed to be strong, courageous, wise, and unemotional.

I was a husband, a father, a provider. I was “tough”...

When the world hit me I hit back. 

When I was in pain I rubbed dirt in the wound and got back on the field. I didn't have any need for emotions (except anger). I was in control. I was respected and wise.

Or at least I thought I was.

Then D-day hit. I cried for days. I lost 20 lbs in a month, threw up more times than I can remember. I was...

Samuel shares about the day Samantha informed him she wanted a separation and what it did for their recovery.