Q&A Should We Create a New Anniversary Date?

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Today is the 30th Wedding Anniversary. In discovery, I learned my wife spent one of our wedding anniversaries with her affair partner. We are both willing to work on a new marriage and understand the old marriage is gone. What do we do about the old anniversary date? Do we pick a new one? I don't mind going out for dinner on our old anniversary dates and talking about the good times of our old marriage, but I do not want in any way shape or form to celebrate the old marriage.



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