Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question Hello, I am finding myself torn between living in the present and grieving my losses. I am 3 months past d-day. My husband has had no ambivalence whatsoever. He is doing everything I could ever hope for to show me he loves me and to own and work through his issues. Our marriage feels better than it has ever been as we have spent countless hours this summer talking together and enjoying a renewed love. Given all this, I really want to l…