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	Q&A What Question Should We Have the Polygrapher Ask?	8/26/2026
	Q&A What Do I Do, As the Betrayed, When I'm Still Grieving and The Impact Is Still Evident?	8/26/2026
	Q&A Does A Porn Addiction Make Someone's Brain More Susceptible to An Affair?	8/26/2026
	Q&A How Do I Navigate Contact With an Innocent Friend, Who Was the Focus of My Husband's Sexual Fixation?	8/26/2026
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Type	Title	Posted
	Q&A How Do We Navigate Outside Advice and Establish Boundaries to Protect Our Relationship?	10/30/2024
	Q&A Could My Husband’s Actions Be Early Signs of Relapse?	10/30/2024
	Q&A How Do I Support My Partner and Accept That I Can’t Control Their Recovery Journey?	10/30/2024
	How Do We Silence Shame?	10/30/2024
	Should I Get a Divorce? Am I Being Naive?	10/23/2024
	Q&A How Do I Help My Unfaithful Husband as He Seems to Be So Buried in Shame, Self-Loathing, and a Huge Sense of Worthlessness?	10/22/2024
	Q&A How Do I Know if It Is Time to Let the Relationship Go?	10/22/2024
	Q&A How Do I Come to Terms With My New Reality as a Betrayed Spouse?	10/22/2024
	Common Justifications for Why Women Cheat	10/16/2024
	Q&A My Betrayed Partner Says They’re Only in EMS Online So They Can Say ‘They Tried’. What Do I Do?	10/09/2024
	Q&A How Do I Heal From the Shame I’m Feeling as a Result of My Affair?	10/09/2024
	Are They Thinking About the Other Person?	10/09/2024
	Is My Spouse a Narcissist?	10/02/2024
	Q&A Is It Normal for Family to Feel Disappointed at Us for Staying With the Wayward Spouse?	10/01/2024
	Q&A Why Does My Husband (Wayward) Not Want to Reconnect With Me (Betrayed) Physically?	10/01/2024
	Q&A Am I a Fool for Being Vulnerable With My Mate?	10/01/2024
	How to Get Your Mate to Cooperate	9/25/2024
	Q&A How Do I Get the Lying and the Porn Use by My Husband to Stop?	9/18/2024
	Q&A How Do I Feel Special Again After I Have Lost So Much Including Places That Were Just Ours?	9/18/2024
	Q&A Did My Wife Need to Justify Her Behavior in Cheating on Me?	9/18/2024
	Q&A How Do I Replace What I Feel With What I Know, if I Don’t Know What the Truth Is?	9/18/2024
	Q&A How Do I Shut Down the Intrusive Thoughts of My Husband With the Affair Partners That Have Become Erotic to Me?	9/18/2024
	Q&A What Else Can I Do to Help Facilitate the Healing Process for My Betrayed Spouse and Myself?	9/18/2024
	Q&A How Can I Get These Images Out of My Mind and Get back to Just Being With My Husband?	9/18/2024
	Q&A How Do I Help My Mate Get back the Dignity and Self-Worth I Took From Her With My Betrayal?	9/18/2024
	A Discussion on Anger, Boundaries and Regrets After Infidelity	9/18/2024
	Factors Affecting Women’s Sexuality with Laurie Bryson, M.A. & LPC	9/11/2024
	What are the 5 simple and proven steps that will protect your marriage?	9/04/2024
	Reclaiming Dignity and Worth as a Woman with Laurie Bryson, M.A. & LPC	8/28/2024
	How to Find Answers	8/21/2024
	Q&A Are We at the End of the Road?	8/20/2024
	Q&A How Do I Get Past or Heal From the Hurtful Things My Husband Said About Me to His Affair Partners?	8/20/2024
	Q&A Would Viewing Surveillance Footage of My Husband’s Affair Be Helpful?	8/14/2024
	Rekindling Desire After An Affair	8/14/2024
	The Process of Healing from Infidelity	8/07/2024
	Q&A Do We Tell My Wife Parents About Her Behavior in Their House?	8/06/2024
	Q&A How Do I Get over Feeling Disgust With My Partner Over Who He Chose to Have an Affair With?	8/06/2024
	Q&A How Do I Truly Know if My Wayward Spouse Has Changed?	8/06/2024
	Q&A What Do I Do When My Wayward Spouse Refuses to Meet My Emotional Needs?	8/06/2024
	Q&A How Can I Better Understand the Behaviors of My Wayward Spouse?	7/31/2024
	Q&A How Can I Get My Wife to Understand That Abuse Towards Men Is Equal to Abuse Towards Women?	7/31/2024
	Q&A How Can I Help My Wayward Spouse Heal From Betrayal Trauma From a Prior Relationship?	7/31/2024
	Is There Hope After Infidelity?	7/31/2024
	Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Polygraphs, Anxiety Induced False Positives, and Full Disclosure During Recovery?	7/26/2024
	Q&A How Can I Believe My Mate When They Say the Affair Is Over?	7/26/2024
	Affair Partners: Eight Reasons Not to Confront Them	7/24/2024
	Why This Hurts So Much...	7/17/2024
	Q&A If We Move, Would We Be Running From Our Problems or Could It Help Our Recovery?	7/10/2024
	Q&A As the Betrayed, Should I Focus on Avoiding the Affair Partner?	7/10/2024
	Q&A Do I Have to Take a Polygraph?	7/10/2024