Q&A Should My Mate and I Agree on Moral Values?

Question

I'm not sure if you can help me with my current struggle. I am nearing a place of forgiveness of my husband, and we are hoping to reconcile. At the same time, I am having a lot of difficulty realizing that I am with someone whose moral character is not what I thought. And I believe that character matters. I am trying to judge him. But when forgiveness is required in all things, does moral character even matter when choosing a mate? And if it do...