Video Restricted to Recovery Library members. Question It has been 2 years since D-Day. The chapter on grieving has helped me a lot. I agree with the statement that we do not grieve well. I know I have not. For a year we had ineffective counseling and just sort of bounced around on our own doing somethings right, but a lot of things wrong and caused more damage. I sort of stuck grieving on the back burner so to speak. For the last 5-6 months it pushed itself to the forefront. Some days I f…