My husband is still having this affair and has refused to end it. It has been going on for approximately 17 months now. He lives at home with me and our son and sees her every two weeks. This is how it's been going on. He had a 2 hour conversation with her last night and she has requested to meet me. I am honestly feeling a bit shocked but can understand that at this time there would be some level of guilt or jealously or just straight out curiosity coming from her side. I do not want to meet this person at all. I am focused on my own recovery. Could you shed some light on why they would want to do this?