My husband’s affair was between 2002-2005. I initially discovered the affair in 2005, however, my husband denied any sexual involvement with the AP. In 2016 his affair surfaced again and he had no choice but admittance. During those many, many years during and after the affair our marriage remained disconnected full of anger, fear and lack of intimacy...to name a few. Looking back, I now realize these last 14 years my husband's affair behavior continued. I recently discovered over the last several years my husband continued inappropriate flirtations with co-workers. Although they did not lead to a sexual affair, I still feel he was being unfaithful to our marriage. What defines infidelity and could his behaviors towards his co-workers explain his disconnection towards me?