Q&A How Can I Change the Way My Spouse Views Me?

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We desperately need your help. My betrayed husband is at the point where he feels like things will never get better and says that he feels nothing towards me, doesn't like seeing me or hearing my voice, and he is certain that will never change. He said that he thinks he is "wasting" his life on me right now and he would rather move on and not feel this way because it is pointless to him. Holidays are here and that is especially hard because our families know of the infidelity so it makes things difficult and I am not welcomed at the home of his parents right now. He says that has nothing to do with how he is feeling right now, and that may be true. He is confident he will never fall back in love with me. I have no idea what I am supposed to do or say right now and really need your help. Is there anything I can do to help him feel like this will not always feel this way? This is so painful for us both and it feels like it won't end. Help.



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