Q&A How Do I Get My Spouse to Take a Lie Detector Test?

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My wife and I just finished the 13 week online course. During week nine she informed me of her fourth affair, which was with a good friend of mine, who I have known for 25 years. How do I get my wife to take a lie detector test? I want to believe she has told me all the details regarding all her affairs, but I do not. Please help.



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Lie detector test and AR counselor

Hi Rick,
Thank you for answering my question.
I guess more specifically I should've asked how do I get my wife to take a lie detector test when she refuses to?
Also, we live in Southern California, North San Diego area. Are there any certified AR counselors this area that you are aware of? I would very much like to go to an Affair Recovery certified counselor. My wife has agreed to go to counseling with me and I insist that it is with a counselor who specializes in affair recovery.
Thank you so much for all your help.

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