Q&A How do We Balance Recovery and a Newborn?

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Our D-Day was 10 weeks ago. My husband (betrayed) and I (unfaithful) are enrolled in the EMS online course. We're committed to our marriage and experiencing an amazing connection during our recovery. However, we've recently discovered that I'm 4 weeks pregnant (by my husband). We are in our early-mid forties, have 2 kids ages 7 & 10, and weren't planning to have any other children. We're both very concerned that having a baby will make it impossible to completely recover from the affair as our focus and attention is already being splintered by this news. What are your thoughts/suggestions as we move forward?



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