Rick, it seems like the betrayed is asked to extend unconditional love during the recovery process, and it seems the unfaithful can receive such great love because they have bared it all. How is it fair when it seems the betrayed is not allow to bare it all too and the unfaithful continue to make it about them? How do I have hope, as the betrayed, I will ever receive unconditional love and care, be able to bare my heart, warts and struggles and all, just as I have had to do for him?