Hi Rick. My husband had many affairs in the 2 years and 4 months we were together, before he got caught. He spent that entire time with other girls, behind my back. Since then, it has been 13 months of Affair Recovery failure. We even tried EMSO. He put no work into it and eventually quit 4 weeks in. His longest affair, he swears they never had sex because they "never got around to it". What I want to know is, why does he say he wants to save this marriage so badly when there is nowhere for love to grow from?