"How much more grievous are the consequences of anger than the causes of it." -Marcus Aurelius I spoke with an angry man tonight. I actually hurt for him. He had an affair about 2 years ago, and since then he has been trying to gain his wife’s forgiveness. It hasn’t worked. Sometimes it doesn’t. What is sad isn’t her inability to forgive, but the fact that the bitterness resulting from what has occurred is destroying them both. In her hurt, rather than letting go and moving on, it se…