Survivors Blog: Samuel
Samuel
Alumnus, Wayward. Providing hope, encouragement and infidelity-specific insight to anyone in recovery from betrayal.
Why the Unfaithful Spouse Refuses to Give Their Betrayed Spouse Details about Their Affair
Samuel shares practical insight into why the unfaithful hesitates to give details about their affair.
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What Happens When There Are Multiple Disclosures? Part Two
Samuel interviews MJ Denis on understanding multiple disclosures and how to help the betrayed spouse move forward.
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What Happens When There Are Multiple Disclosures? Part One
Samuel interviews MJ Denis on understanding multiple disclosures and how to help the betrayed spouse move forward.
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Changing Patterns in Marriage, after Infidelity
Samuel shares key insight into changing patterns when one spouse seems to be the pursuer.
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An Expert's Take on Defensiveness in Infidelity
Samuel interviews Rick the founder of affairrecovery.com on defensiveness and how to remedy it.
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What Do You Do When Your Spouse Is Raging in Anger?
Samuel discuses an important recovery tool for those who deal with anger in repair work.
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Gaslighting and Infidelity: An Interview with a Specialist Part Two
Samuel discusses gaslighting and both the betrayed and unfaithful spouse.
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Gaslighting and Infidelity: An Interview with a Specialist Part One
Samuel discusses gaslighting and both the betrayed and unfaithful spouse.
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Why or Why Not Do Recovery Work after Infidelity?
Samuel shares a humorous but telling story about his motivation in recovery work.
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Why the Betrayed Spouse Want's to Be Chosen by Their Unfaithful Spouse
Samuel has a heart to heart with the unfaithful spouse about choosing their partner.
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Samuel Shares a Destructive Pattern Couples Fall into in Recovery Work
Samuel shares a few humorous stories about he and Samantha's recovery work after infidelity.
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Creating Safety for Communication after an Affair
Samuel discusses a tool to avoid unnecessary conflict in repair work.
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An Interview with a Betrayed Male Spouse Part 2
Samuel provides a follow up to an earlier interview with a betrayed male spouse.
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An Interview with a Betrayed Male Spouse Part 1
Samuel provides a much anticipated interview with a betrayed male spouse.
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What Do You Do When You're Hopeless?
Samuel discusses how to defeat hopelessness when recovering from the devastation of infidelity.
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How 'Micro-Trusts' Can Help Re-establish Trust after Infidelity
Samuel shares a tool that helped change his own recovery with Samantha.
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What about When the Female Is the Unfaithful? Part Two
Samuel interviews an unfaithful, female therapist, who helps couples in crisis due to infidelity.
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What about When the Female Is the Unfaithful? Part One
Samuel interviews an unfaithful, female therapist, who helps couples in crisis due to infidelity.
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Repair Work Requires a Decision to Keep Going Anyway...
Samuel encourages those who are struggling to keep the momentum in their personal repair work.
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What Spouse's Can and Cannot Do Early on in Recovery from Infidelity
Samuel shares a necessary adjustment to early recovery work for those in crisis.
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Why Do Some Betrayed Spouses End up Having Affairs of Their Own?
Samuel discusses the sensitive topic of when betrayed spouses have affairs of their own.
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You Don't Have to Be Alone in Healing from Infidelity
Samuel discusses ways of finding support in recovery work.
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What Should the Betrayed Spouse Do When There Is Lack of Initiative in Recovery Work?
Samuel shares insight on what the betrayed spouse can and should do when their unfaithful wont lead recovery efforts.
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Why Won't the Unfaithful Spouse Take Initiative in Recovery Work?
Samuel discusses a poignant topic in recovery work regarding the unfaithful spouse.
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Did I Cause My Spouse to Have an Affair?
Samuel tackles a common question of betrayed spouses who are endeavoring to pursue their own healing.
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What Do You Do When There Are Multiple Relapses?
Samuel answers a viewers question on what to do when there are multiple relapses.
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What Do You Do When You've Lost Respect or Admiration for Your Unfaithful Spouse? Part 2
Samuel answers a viewers question on what you should do when you've lost respect for your unfaithful spouse.
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What Do You Do When You've Lost Respect or Admiration for Your Unfaithful Spouse? Part 1
Samuel answers a viewers question on what you should do when you've lost respect for your unfaithful spouse.
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