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4592 Resources

Type	Title	Posted
	Rick's Q & A Call on July 7, 2014	6/30/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on June 30, 2014	6/23/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on June 23, 2014	6/16/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on June 16, 2014	6/09/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on June 9, 2014	6/02/2014
	The Seduction of Blame	5/21/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on June 2, 2014	5/05/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on May 5, 2014	4/28/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on April 28, 2014	4/21/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on April 21, 2014	4/07/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on March 24, 2014	3/10/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on March 3, 2014	2/17/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on February 17, 2014	2/10/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on February 10, 2014	2/03/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on February 3, 2014	1/27/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on January 27, 2014	1/20/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on January 20, 2014	1/13/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on January 13, 2014	1/06/2014
	Rick's Q & A Call on January 6, 2014	12/30/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on December 23, 2013	12/16/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on December 16, 2013	12/09/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on December 9, 2013	12/02/2013
	I have no desire to be physically intimate with my mate since his infidelity, what can I do?	11/26/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on December 2, 2013	11/26/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on November 25, 2013	11/18/2013
	How do I forgive myself for what I've done? I can't stop confessing and asking for forgiveness, how do I accept forgiveness?	11/18/2013
	My husband is the hurt spouse and doesn't want to get help, things are getting better as I follow your advice, but can we recover if he doesn't get help?	11/18/2013
	How do you deal with never knowing the truth and how do I handle his anger when I ask questions?	11/18/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on November 18, 2013	11/11/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on November 11, 2013	11/04/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on November 4, 2013	10/28/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on October 28, 2013	10/21/2013
	Can someone act out sexually and not enjoy the experience?	10/21/2013
	We've entered the maintenance stage of recovery and my husband seems to be moving back into pretend normal, what can I do?	10/21/2013
	We are seperated because my unfaithful mate says he needs to be focused on God, am I being a fool?	10/21/2013
	What is the difference between fantasy (while acting out) and fantasizing?	10/21/2013
	Types of Affairs Radio Episode Preview	10/15/2013
	How can sex addicts fight denial and self-deception? Can our mates ever be safe with us?	10/14/2013
	My husband and I can't talk about his new job with out becoming defensive, how do we have a productive conversation and say on track with our recovery?	10/14/2013
	How did your wife respond when you relapsed? Was it more difficult than the first time?	10/14/2013
	My husband is having an emotional affair and won't address it. What are my options?	10/14/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on October 21, 2013	10/14/2013
	We're six months into recovery and my husband seems to slipping back into old patterns. What can I do?	10/07/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on October 14, 2013	10/07/2013
	I've lost my sexual desire for my wife after learning of all she's done. What can I do?	10/07/2013
	My husbands answers as to why he had the affair scare me is that normal?	9/23/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on October 7, 2013	9/23/2013
	What We Learned at EMS Weekend	9/04/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on September 23, 2013	8/26/2013
	Rick's Q & A Call on August 26	8/12/2013