Q&A Does He Need a Consequence to Fully Recommit?

Submitted by Leslie_Hardie Fri, 09/13/2019 - 09:48

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My husband’s infidelity came to light by chance and when found out it had already past 2 years. He has since then been committed to the family and marriage and he says recovery work is an option for him. I’ve read also that unless the unfaithful spouse goes through a consequence of the infidelity, they will not recommit fully. What are your thoughts on this?

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No, he has not begun recovery work. We have since the submission of this video, he has said that he will do EMSO with me. But he is a fickle character, plus, he is extremely busy with his work. I am still waiting for a right time.

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