Q&A How Should Intimacy Look for a Couple after Infidelity?

Submitted by Leslie_Hardie Wed, 07/12/2017 - 14:50

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We are three months out from D-Day of my husband's emotional and sexual affair. He has ended the relationship with his AP, we have been to EMS weekend and are in the throes of recovery (marriage counseling, Harboring Hope and Hope for Healing, Married for Life). We have been sexually intimate a few times but it just doesn't feel like we are connecting intimately. I don't know what this is supposed to look like but it just doesn't feel right. Any suggestions or thoughts for the betrayed spouse?

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
-D, Texas