I'm having trouble believing that my mate is with us because God changed his heart. We actually went to court for divorce (never signed the final papers) because even though I told him I would forgive him, he said he was leaving us and moving to Canada to be with his AP. The judge gave us his ruling (he had to pay child support, alimony, all THREE of our health insurance, and would only see the boys on weekends (if he wanted to). This conveniently coincides with his change of heart. He is a COMPLETELY changed man since court/change of heart so I'm trying to believe that if it were because of the judgement, nothing would be different. My question is, what is your opinion on this? I'm pretty sure you have seen this situation before.