My husband ended his affair two years ago. He says he still thinks about her all the time. I asked him if he still has romantic feelings for her but he never gives me a direct answer (which gives me my answer). He says it doesn’t matter because he chose to be with me. He says he feels like he will always think of her through his whole life because she changed him. He has no contact with her, so why does he still think of her? It hurts me so much. I don’t understand how he can think so fondly of someone who helped wreck our home. I want him to not like her as much as I do.