We’ve been to EMS Weekend and are both currently in HH and H4H. We separated shortly after EMS when I found out he was still with AP after months of thinking he had cutoff contact. I had to set boundaries. Recently, he moved back in and I found out he was still with AP during separation. He was transparent and forthcoming about it when we moved back in together, so it was painful but I am trusting the process. I recently have found texts and found out he met up with AP through snooping - he did not tell me. Our “decide to stay/leave” date is in April so I’m still a ways away from deciding to divorce or continue on in marriage. What are appropriate boundaries for not being transparent and hiding his continued relationship with AP? I’m assuming even more is going on but that’s just what I found out through snooping. Is separation worth trying again? I’m at a loss at what to do.