I’m in week 13 of EMS Online and watching the couple videos each week I just keep thinking, “wow, we were really nothing like theses couples.” Like any couple we had our problems but no where near the extent of some of these. We had a marriage I’d think others would aspire to have. My husband would agree. I know this sounds counter intuitive but this gives me less hope because he really had no reason to step out on the marriage & destroy something that was good. Can you provide any insight into why someone might do this in a thriving marriage?