I have struggled with my weight for many years. My husband ALWAYS assured me that it was not an issue for him. He never made any negative comments about it or anything. Then I discovered his affairs. He went into great detail of explaining how much a couple of them looked like me....same hair color, short, that he guessed he was just attracted to a certain "type of woman". Imagine the sucker punch I felt when I discovered that the last one was HALF my size and the one before that was about 60 pounds lighter than me..... So if that is what is attractive when he is playing the field how am I supposed to think that I am attractive to him?