Q&A How Can We Create Safety During Military Deployment?

My husband is in the military and was deployed around a year to various locations around the world for 5 years. He had multiple one night stands plus a pornography issue. It has been 6 months since full disclosure and we are one week 9 of EMS Online. We are both christians and my husband is very remorseful for his actions and your program has given us the right information to navigate through this process. I have heard it said that you will be able to see that your spouse is becoming distant if they are relapsing. I am concerned that with future deployments I will not be able to spot the distance because we are apart. Should we do polygraphs after each deployment or long separation? I want to trust again but I know infidelity is the keeping of secrets and my husband is an addict. If he were to relapse then I fear that he might revert back to secrecy and that I will never know due to long separations.