Q&A How Long Is Too Long?

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We are more than 2 years from the original D-Day. My husband didn't get serious about recovery until about 4 months ago. I am feeling so frustrated by how slow his progress is. I know in recovery time it has only been 4 months or so but I have been dealing with all this for over 2 years everyday! Through his relapses, excuses, justifications etc. I have PTSD from it all! I know it's a process...truly I do. It's so hard to go through everyday and have him make just a tiny bit of progress with maybe justifying one thing and not another. That's just not enough for me and I have told him that. He really does "try" to get it but how can he miss the mark for this long? He has done H4H, I did HH, and we are in our last week of EMSO. We have a MC and we each have IC's. He says he's a slow learner and I'm worried he's a no learner!



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