Q&A What Are Your Thoughts On Renewing of Vows?

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What are your thoughts about renewing vows? My husband is a sexual addict and suffers from lying and manipulation. I am struggling with co-dependency and anger from the affairs. My husband and I are in week 2 of EMSO and have a lot of hope that this marriage will be better than ever. We both realize that we have a long ways to go, but we would eventually like to renew our vows. I am not sure when the right time is and what all needs to be in place before we recommit ourselves.

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I know one couple on the EMSO video mentioned that they wanted to be authentic in all of their relationships so they made the choice to tell everyone what happened and why they were renewing vows. Form this they lost friends, gained friends, lost respect and gained respect. Is this something that is strongly recommended when renewing vows? What are your thoughts on telling people... some people or all..?

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