Q&A What Kind of Affair Did My Husband Have and What Does It Mean for Recovery?

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At the beginning of December my husband got another phone, went on a dating site, and met the affair partner. They talked for a month and met in person twice. Once behind a gas station over lunch and the other time at her house at 6 am for sex. It wasn’t a one night stand and it also wasn’t a long term affair. What was it? We have been married for 17 years and this is his second physical affair and he has had three emotional affairs that I know of. Him going out and getting a phone and looking for “someone” what does this mean for us and for me? I am so sad and hurt my him.



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