Hi Rick. I'm the unfaithful spouse. We have completed EMS Online and found the material to be helpful. However, since completing the course, I have come to the conclusion that the actions and thoughts described in the material are something that every spouse should be doing anyway. What I mean is that no spouse should be getting brownie points for being able to communicate, to be authentic and to practice heartfelt listening. The restitution required for successfully winning the betrayed spouse over must go above and beyond what spouses that have not committed adultery must do. What is your take on this statement and how would you recommend approaching this on a daily basis? Would you consider adding a chapter on this to the course material? Thank you.