Q&A When Will I Stop Asking Questions?

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Question

It has been a little over three months since disclosure. My husband cheated three times, each with a different women. None of them were long term or emotional, just physical contact or exchanging of pictures. But with three different women and all being a different type of affair, there is a lot to process. We are currently in week seven of the EMS Online. Other than Christmas, it seems as though everyday we talk about the affairs and what I’m going through and what he’s going through. But everyday I have new questions, or I ask questions I’ve already asked. Sometimes because I truly forgot the answer or sometimes I ask the same question in a different way for reassurance. I am wondering when will all the questions stop? I understand I can choose to not ask them, however I have been trying to follow the book in regards to what questions you shouldn’t ask. But even the “right” questions that are consistently in my mind are wearing me and my husband down.

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